Uncover Ways to Earn: Upselling As an Art
When you’re working on an adult platform that revolves around calls, texts, and content sales, the key to higher earnings often lies in something subtle: how you communicate, not just what you offer.
Upselling doesn’t have to mean pushing users into paying more. When done right, it feels like a natural part of the conversation. Whether you're a texter, talker, or content creator, here’s how to increase your income with upsells that feel smooth and confident and allow you to stay true to your performing preferences!
Shift Your Mindset: You're a Sexy Guide, Not a Salesperson
A common mistake? Feeling like you need to constantly “sell” yourself. Instead, think of yourself as guiding the sexual experience. Your goal isn’t to pressure the customer; it’s to enhance their session. Upselling in this world should feel a bit more like flirtation, not the twist of their wrist.
If a customer texts you with a fantasy or opens a call with “I’ve been thinking about you all day,” that’s your invitation. You don’t have to respond with a full menu. Try something like:
“Mmm, want to take a peek at what I’m wearing right now?”
“Oh yeah? What did you imagine us doing?” and then follow-up with, “If you call me, you could see it live…”
That one moment turns a casual message into an income opportunity, without ever sounding like a hard sell. It also digests MUCH better than saying something like “If that’s the case, come tip or come play.”
Read Between the Lines: Upsell Through Desire
Most users won’t say directly: “I want to spend more money.” But they will drop hints, asking what you’re wearing, if you take photos, if you’re alone, what you wish they were doing to you right now. These are all ways to continue the experience with you. These are cues. Instead of answering passively, pivot with an upsell intention:
“I’d love to tell you all about it. Why don’t you just relax and listen to my voice.” And then follow-up with an audio message.
“You’re getting me worked up with that question. Do you want to cum together on a call?”
You're not inventing something new to sell. You're responding to their desire and offering a deeper layer of experience…for a price.
Keep the Mood In Place
Timing is everything. If you suddenly cut the flow of a flirty conversation to quote prices or break into "business mode," the mood dies fast, and there’s a higher chance of the customer cutting things early.
Instead of saying, “That’s $25 if you want a photo.”
Try, “I could show you… But it’ll cost you. How bad do you want me?”
Use language that keeps you in character. When it’s playful or teasing, even the upsell becomes part of the fantasy.
Make the Yes Easy - Time for Anchoring!
“Anchoring” is a term that means setting a higher point of comparison, making a smaller offer feel more accessible and ultimately totally worth it for the customer. For example, if a custom video that meets what the user likes starts at $100+, mentioning that briefly before offering a $25 bundle of pics can make the smaller price seem like a no-brainer.
But to keep it sexy without yet mentioning prices, you could say something like, “I usually charge a lot more for stuff like that… but I’ve got a few seconds, want a sneak peek for $10?”
This method makes the user feel like they’re getting a deal without discounting your worth or the time you invest in creating the sexy content.
Create a “Yes” Loop
The best upsells come when a user is already used to saying yes to you. If they’ve already tipped once or responded positively to one offer, you can build gently from there.
Let’s say they’ve just purchased a topless photo. Follow it up with something like, “Do you think I should take off these panties too?”
If you user tells you that you’re turning them on, suggest that they show you: “I’d really love to actually see what I’m doing to you. Wanna show me?”
Let the heat guide the momentum.
End With Options, Not Demands
Never make a user feel like they have to pay to enjoy time with you. Instead, frame upsells as opportunities, not requirements.
If you’re wrapping up a call or convo, try: “If you ever want something personal just for you, I love making customs.”
Or: “Next time, if you want to really turn me on, I’ve got some extra tricks up my sleeve…”
Even: “What we did had me thinking of some things we can try next time. What do you think of…”
You’re planting the seed. The next time they return, they’ll likely bring more of their wallet.
Time to Get That Bag!
Upselling, when done with ease, isn’t about asking for more; it’s about offering more and reading the customer. When you’re tuned into your customer’s energy, keeping the vibe sexy, and delivering options with confidence, you’ll find that many users want to spend more. You’re not just a performer, you’re a luxury experience!