🤏 A Game of Inches 🤭
SextPanther Models Monthly Newsletter: Volume 5, Issue 9, September 2026
🏈 Are You Ready for Some Football?
Yup. That’s right. It’s (already) football season again. If it’s not one sport ball, it’s another, isn’t it?
Well, hey, if you’re a sports fan, lean in with your clients. Revel in a fandom together or start a playful (heated?) rivalry. Could not care less about what’s happening on the field? Just have your own fun and make them jealous about it later, a la Kristen Stewart and Vanessa Bayer on Saturday Night Live a few years back.
✨ Site Updates: Past and Future
Earlier this month, we got a little update to the Media Vault 👇
🔤 Media Vault Sort
In addition to sorting by the date you added the media, you can now alphabetically sort by file name (A to Z and Z to A).
Looking ahead to October, here’s what’s about to be released 🤸
💨💾 Quick Save to Media Vault
You’ll be able to quickly add to your vault any media you sent in chats or posted to your Feed. Snapped a spicy live pic you bet you can sell to others? Save it to your vault so you can easily send to other contacts! Have an old Feed post that got a lot of likes? Save it to your vault, delete it from your Feed, and then easily post it again in the future!
⏲️ Expiration Timer on Media Mass Messages
When you send Mass Messages with media attached, you can add a timer for that media to disappear. Make an unlock opportunity a true limited time offer to provoke your contacts’ FOMO.
↩️ Unsend Unopened Media Messages
Accidentally sent a pic to the wrong contact? We’ve all been there. Sent something they never unlocked or opened and now the time has passed? With this upcoming update, you’ll be able to unsend media messages a contact never unlocked/opened.
🔎 Tip Page Search
You’ll be able to search the Tips page on your Model Dashboard by tip message, username, and amount. Forget how much you previously charged for a custom? Instead of scrolling up in the messages, you can search by username and find out quickly!
🎖️ It’s Nomination Szn
Have you ever wondered how creators and performers get nominated for awards? Well, you have to get pre-nominated first! Pre-nominations are open for AVN and XMA. You can pre-nominate yourself (and your friends!) and prompt your fans to do so as well! Just remember, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
Both awards shows close their pre-nominations on September 30, so hop to it and spread the word!
AVN: Go here for the fan awards submissions.
XMA: Send your fans here to nominate you. Send XBIZ industry members here. Don’t have an XBIZ account yet? Create one—it’s easy! You can use your SextPanther profile as proof of work in the industry.
P.S., You can also nominate SextPanther for Creator Platform Company of the Year (a company that operates one or more outstanding creator platforms, while also excelling in affiliate partnerships and community-building) AND Creator Platform of the Year (a premium social media platform with a robust roster of creators, and an outstanding user interface/experience).
🙅 Denial and Ruined Orgasms in a Digital World
Before we dive into approaches for denial and ruined orgasms over calls, texts, and audio or video messages, let’s briefly define terms: Orgasm denial is building arousal while withholding permission to finish. A ruined orgasm is allowing someone to reach climax but intentionally disrupting the experience so it feels incomplete or unsatisfying.
You might wonder how on earth to do this effectively online. Well, the trick isn’t physical control—it’s creating the feeling of control through pacing, anticipation, and some fun communication! There’s a big benefit here: Denial naturally slows down the session, creates more interaction, and gives you more opportunities to build anticipation (and make money) instead of rushing toward the ending.
✅ Always establish boundaries first. For example, find out whether they want playful or strict denial and whether humiliation is welcome.
💬 Questions create interaction. Asking whether they’ve “earned” permission or how badly they want it keeps them emotionally involved instead of passively waiting for instructions.
📱 Online timing matters. Since you can’t feel the person, use check-ins, numbered scales, or agreed-upon phrases to know how close they are. (“On a scale of 1-10, how close are you? Now take it down to a 3, hold it there for me…you are doing so well.”)
🎭 The fantasy is psychological. Teasing, uncertainty, reward, frustration, praise, humiliation, and permission can all be part of the experience depending on what the customer enjoys.
🧠 Don’t just repeat “no.” Build the session in stages—warm-up, teasing, testing, decision, and final reward or denial. Keep them guessing whether or not you will allow them to cum!
The best denial sessions feel unpredictable, personal, and completely controlled by YOU, even when you’re miles away. Get the full breakdown with examples and tips 👉 here.
🗳️ Are You Hot2Vote?
For those of us in the US, midterm elections are just around the corner 👀 You may or may not know how important it is to check your status—your voter registration status! That’s where Hot2Vote comes in.
They are a nonpartisan coalition of 100+ adult entertainers and creators that launched a voter education campaign with a simple message: The stars always check their status and so should you! Hot2Vote leverages the POWER of adult entertainers to reach and motivate their fans to check their voter registration status and vote on Election Day.
As Hot2Vote says, we don’t care who you vote for. We care that you get to vote.
Want to get involved? Here’s how:
🤓 October Live Sessions
It’s tough in a digital world, so let’s connect! Meet with SP staff and fellow models to better understand the platform, give/get mutual support, and ask what’s on your mind! These sessions are free and open to all active models. Note that we’ll be back to including coaching sessions in November.
New Model Onboarding: Platform Walkthrough
Tuesday, October 20 at 6pm PT / 8pm CT / 9pm ET | Sign up here.
No Stronger Together this month—look for the next one in November!
Open Office Hours
Tuesday, October 27 at 12pm PT / 2pm CT / 3pm ET | Sign up here.
No coaching session this month—look for the next one in November!
🧪Get STI Tested at Home! 📬
There’s no time like the present to get your STI test done! SextPanther continues to partner with ProDx to offer our models a 25% discount on their PASS-certified home-collection STI testing kit . The Pro13 Kit tests for 8 common infections and includes all tests required for regular PASS clearance .
Order your first kit today using this specific link, which automatically applies the discount!
Concerned about privacy? SextPanther has absolutely zero access to your data. Only you can access your results by logging into your secure, HIPAA-compliant account.
💆 Mental Health Support with Sunshine Wellness
Positive self talk is helpful, but you can also talk to someone outside yourself!Through SextPanther’s partnership with Sunshine Wellness Care, you can access up to $200 worth of sessions every month for FREE. Read more here.
The $200 coverage resets at the beginning of each month. Make sure you use the appropriate coupon code when completing your booking:
30-Minute Session: SP30MIN
60-Minute Session: SP60MIN