🛷 Sleigh the Day
SextPanther Models Monthly Newsletter: Volume 4, Issue 12, December 2025
🙏 All I Want…
We (belatedly) wish everyone a wonderful holiday full of warmth, cheer, and of course—PRESENTS! Definitely presents 🎁💝🎁
Hopefully 2025 was good to you, and if not…well, just wait a few days and everything resets. Those are the rules!
✨ Site Updates: ICYMI
🧵 Threaded Messages
The update on 12/15 introduced threaded messages, which now shows a linking line when a user responds directly to one of your Mass Messages or Feed Posts.
For Mass Messages, the line will link your message to the user's response. For Feed Posts, the line will link a thumbnail of your post to the user's message to show you exactly what they're responding to.
This update should help you more directly trace your conversations with users, enabling you to respond appropriately and keep the conversation flowing.
🎞️ XBIZ LA + AVN 🎰
🎞️ XBIZ LA: January 12–14
SextPanther will have a company lounge at XBIZ LA this year! We’ll also be holding a roundtable discussion to present features in the works and gather feedback from our model community 👂📝 Stop by, say hi, and grab a SextPanther beanie!
🎰 AVN (Las Vegas): January 21–24
While we won’t have a booth this year, you’ll see a few of our staff members on the floor, making the rounds 🤝 On Thursday evening, we’re hosting an exclusive happy hour reception for our models 🥂 Email cathy@sextpanther.com to let us know if you’ll be in town, and we’ll send you the invite.
💸 ’Tis the Season (to Start Thinking About Taxes)
In early January, we will begin to review and process the 1099-NECs for tax year 2025.
Please ensure your personal and tax information is current and accurate! Log in to your Model Dashboard, and navigate in the left sidebar to Payout Information > Overview > 1099 Info. Double check your mailing address as well as your legal name and SSN or your company name and EIN.
Need to make any changes to your W-9? Just press the Update button! If you’re submitting an EIN, the company name goes in Box #1 on the automated form.
🕊️ The Art of Letting Go
When it comes to your work, letting go isn’t “giving up.” It’s protecting your energy, your voice, and your peace so you can enjoy your work to the fullest 💛 Here’s what to release (and what you’ll gain):
🚫 Let go of clients who drain you.
Boundary pushers, manipulators, energy vampires, and anyone who leaves you feeling tense after sessions.
🧠 Let go of guilt around blocking or restricting.
Curating your space is professional. You don’t owe access to anyone.
🎭 Let go of personas that feel like a cage.
Your brand can evolve. You’re allowed to adjust your vibe, tone, menu, and boundaries.
⏳ Let go of “always on” grind mode.
More hours doesn’t always mean more money, especially if you’re burned out.
🎙️ Let go of forcing a fake “sexy voice.”
Your natural voice is already powerful. Small warmups + micro-breaks protect it.
👀 Let go of comparison and competition.
Scrolling is a trap on low-confidence days. Protect your lane and your energy.
🌿 Make space for what actually serves you.
Better boundaries, steadier confidence, safer work, and a version of you that feels like you.
👉 Read the full piece in the Model Resource Center here.
💆 Mental Health Support with Sunshine Wellness
With 2026 just around the corner, consider making mental health a focus in the new year. SextPanther is continuing its partnership with Sunshine Wellness Care to cover up to $200 worth of sessions every month for each model. Read more here.
30-minute wellness checks are $50, and 60-minute checks are $100. This means that each month, SextPanther can cover
four, 30-minute checks;
two, 60-minute checks; OR
one, 60-minute check and two, 30-minute checks
The $200 coverage resets at the beginning of each month. Make sure you use the appropriate coupon code when completing your booking:
30-Minute Session: SP30MIN
60-Minute Session: SP60MIN
🤓 January Live Sessions
Drop in, ask questions, learn something new, and share what you know! Sessions are free and open to all active models.
New Model Onboarding: Platform Walkthrough
Tuesday, January 6 at 6pm PT / 8pm CT / 9pm ET | Sign up here.
Stronger Together: Peer Support + Encouragement
Thursday, January 8 at 10am PT / 12pm CT / 1pm ET | Sign up here.
Open Office Hours
Tuesday, January 20 at 6pm PT / 8pm CT / 9pm ET | Sign up here.
With XBIZ + AVN this month, we won’t host a coaching session. Look for the next one in February!